How do you tell a close friend he's a slob?

[nobbie48]

^ Yup!


Either you know what needs to be done (e.g. bust his balls) and you can't bring yourself to do it, or you don't know what needs to be done. Whichever it is supports my point that you're not "qualified" or at least ready to provide the support your friend needs.

Good point. Even trained psychologists mess up peoples lives. If you aren't trained are you prepared to fix the mess?

Lead by example? If he complains just tell him what works for you in getting chicks, a job etc. If he isn't interested in doing it your way then you can't help him unless you know some way of getting people to like a slob. No longer your problem.