It seems every time a technology comes along to make our lives safer and easier we find a way to negate the effects. Daytime running lights? Means no rear lights in rain or snowstorm. ABS/TC? Brake later power sooner. Reliable cars? Commute from Barrie. Drive thrus? 30 car line up. No sane person would argue against the advancements in isolation.
Not sure what part of the province you hail from, but it's a rare car that only runs DRL on rainy days in Toronto. It's better than a few years ago when those same people drove (often at night) without headlights at all.
Same with the braking. Most drivers speed/follow too closely, so they tend to slam on the brakes, ABS or not. I grew up before ABS was offered--there wasn't a golden age of careful motorists. Not being crushed by a careless soccer mom because her monster SUV had ABS is reason enough to love it.
Some ABS systems could be disabled by removing the fuse (I'm thinking the Bandits and V-Stroms), so there's always that for the foolhardy.
Bedroom communities, traffic congestion and drive-thrus are urban development issues that go back to the 1930s. Not sure how they really relate to automotive safety technology or the legislation that surrounds it. Personally, I'd rather have a government that is tied into knots trying to make my life safer and easier. Dying prematurely due to government indifference (or malice) isn't on my Christmas wishlist.
I understand that off-road/dirt riding uses braking techniques that rely on locking up the wheels, but I suspect that's where switchable systems come into play.