Happy to report I figured out what to do, not elegant as I need to recreate the routes with a manual road following, and the stops are limited to a max of 10 when making a route. Which can be a problem because when drawing to make a route, if it sees there is a faster way to get to where you're going, it try's to change the route and avoid roads that you want to go on. It's always looking for the fastest route so you need to drop a "stop" before it tries to change the route. And then continue on down the path with a new stop so it doesn't use its magic to change the road and avoid everything you want to hit. I was just barely able to map this 5.5 hr route with my 10 points.
After creating it in google my maps, export to .kml. From there using kml2gpx.com, I converted to a gpx, which is easily opened as turn by turn directions from a few apps, my favourite so far being calimoto. For some reason apps do not like .kml as much, you can open the route and see the birds eye overview with the 1-10 stops but no navigation besides the gps follow function.
Very glad this is figured out. Thanks again for the help. Probably will keep mass downloading gps apps and see if I find anything better but calimoto seems nice so far. It also has a route tracking function.
Typically I use an iPhone and "Scenic" is the top of the pack, but at the moment I'm on an android phone because my iPhone is broken and scenic is not available for android. Otherwise I would be using scenic for gpx files.