Are men more "feminine" today?

[IV.]

I was having lunch with a female friend and one of the things she asked are why are guys such wimps today, why can't they be more like you, just more of a guy. I asked her what she meant and she went on to say the following:

1. they are looking more like girls down to hairless body
2. they are starting to act more like girls
3. they seem to lack balls to stand up for themselves
4. they don't know how to talk to women, they just stand there thinking we are going to break the ice for them
5. they don't know how to banter and create that sexual chemistry

Oh, and one point that was really emphasized she asked "WTF are with all these guys and video games?"

What says my fellow riders guys and gals alike?

Please keep it civil.


btw- No need to be negative and childish by aiming your remarks at me (not referring to you Kool)
It is just a point of discussion that someone brought up.

 

[fastar1]

Because if we were all more like you then you wouldn't be such an outstanding superior person any more.

 

[Charly]

Not all but I've got a PS3 that needs a sledge hammer throught it real soon.

 

[Roasted]

I would argue that there is nothing "manly" about being a smooth casa nova and piking up/bsing your way into a chick's pants. If anything, that's a feminine quality. Back when men were man you'd walk up to a chick, whack her across the back of the head with a stick and drag her back to your cave. No need for bs, and sweet talk. Men took what they wanted.

 

[kickstartt]

lol

 

[PokLim]

maybe in ten years society will be matriarchal..

 

[Kool]

Its this metrosexual wanna be thing...bunch of pussies

 

[Roasted]

So OP, you gonna tell us or what? Did your "friend" S your D?

 

[TwistedKestrel]

I'm the manliest rainbow pony around.

For realz, though, I can supply all the body hair your female friend needs.

 

[knowledge]

Maybe... but only because things are becoming more acceptable. I don't think it's a bad thing, though...I think it's good that things are becoming more gender-neutral.

My friends & I were just talking about how maybe 10 years ago, dudes dancing choreography would all be considered fruity. Now it's respectable and these guys could be considered alpha males.

Case in point: [video=youtube;ipSiFdv1mIs]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ipSiFdv1mIs[/video]

Honestly, your friend just sounds like one of those girls that loves being put in her place.

 

[FullMotoJacket]

I was having lunch with a female friend and one of the things she asked are why are guys such wimps today, why can't they be more like you, just more of a guy.

She obviously hasn't read any of your post on here.

 

[TwistedKestrel]

Maybe... but only because things are becoming more acceptable. I don't think it's a bad thing, though...I think it's good that things are becoming more gender-neutral.

My friends & I were just talking about how maybe 10 years ago, dudes dancing choreography would all be considered fruity. Now it's respectable and these guys could be considered alpha males.

Counter-point - Singing In The Rain.

 

[IV.]

So OP, you gonna tell us or what? Did your "friend" S your D?

I am not the type to "kiss and tell".
I value mutual respect and discretion.

 

[invictus43]

I am not the type to "kiss and tell".
I value mutual respect and discretion.

How's that workin for ya..

 

[Roasted]

Here is an article that poses at least one explanation for this phenomenon:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/a...d-masculine-men--interested-boyish-looks.html

 

[IV.]

Its this metrosexual wanna be thing...bunch of pussies

Now that you mentioned this, she did use that metrosexual word and said even her female friends find it confusing as to whether a guy is straight or not initially. She was wondering why a straight guy wanted to mimic a gay guy. I laughed and said you have to ask one of them that.

btw- No need to be negative and childish by aiming your remarks at me (not referring to you Kool)
It is just a point of discussion that someone brought up.

 

[FullMotoJacket]

btw- No need to be negative and childish by aiming your remarks at me (not referring to you Kool)

If you have a problem with what I post, report it. Passive aggressive comments are..........rather feminine.

Now that I think of it, pretty much every post you've made in the last month has been an inane opinion on a trivial subject, which you then dig your heels in and defend to the death when someone has a counterpoint. Kinda describes every argument I've ever had with a woman.

 

[r6rollin]

whats wrong with video games? im such a man in call of duty its insane

 

[IV.]

Yet, you still feel the need to keep replying to my post.
Just move on or add me to your ignore list.

You strike me as an "angry" person. Life is short, don't spend yours replying to my posts.

If you have a problem with what I post, report it. Passive aggressive comments are..........rather feminine.

Now that I think of it, pretty much every post you've made in the last month has been an inane opinion on a trivial subject, which you then dig your heels in and defend to the death when someone has a counterpoint. Kinda describes every argument I've ever had with a woman.

 

[FullMotoJacket]

ou strike me as an "angry" person.

Angry? No.

Low threshold? Definitely.