Its hard to say money isn't the issue, we both work and know that the bills have to be paid first. We have 5 children between us from different marriages, the older ones are 22, 21 and 20. The younger ones are 13 and 9.
The bigger issue is the time that riding takes away from family and each other. My solution was to try to get her on a bike, so we could at least enjoy riding together.
Here is the story
....the first bike, (we were engaged), I told her I was buying one. She either didn't believe me or wasn't listening. She almost had a heart attack.
Second bike, she came with me when I was looking, but again, don't think she believed I would do it. Not much she could say. That was when she decided to get her license and claim bike #1 as hers. I took her out and bought all her gear, paid for the course, she took to it very well.
But there was still the problem of the younger kids, not having them involved. So I racked my brain, whats a good way to have them involved too? Then it hit me, track days with maybe a chance of breaking into racing ( I'm kinda old for that but, hey, why not?) The kids could come and help out in the pits,etc etc.
So I bought a third (track bike), this time she was with me when I made the deal. Bad crash on my 2nd outing with the track bike (june 2014), I couldn't ride for a while, so she stopped riding. I was back in the saddle by september, but she refused to ride (even this spring). Its taken me a bit, but I've finally got her riding again. Kids are happy enough to stay at home and play video games, but its still a balancing act.