You can't control everything in your life. That certainly includes someone else's carelessness causing your own death. Riding a bike increases your exposure to the consequences of carelessness, whether it's yours or theirs
Never said I could, and never said I was trying to control another person's actions or attitude.
Hell, I'm not even trying to convince you. I'm simply stress testing my own mental shift that has led to a lot of inner peace.
There is nothing outside of ourselves that we can control; I have zero issue with taking ownership for not foreseeing someone ramming into me. If I used the mentality you and Green Meenie are trying to convince me to take, I would have to quit riding.