So you work about 60 hours a week, and want to add another 20 hours a week in commute time? Unless you make over $200k per year and plan on retiring in 5 years, you're killing yourself. If I have to sit in my car longer than 35 minutes, my thoughts and mood sway toward violence...nothing brings out the worst in me like a terrible commute.
I hope for your sake you're not averse to splitting lanes, and are proficient at it.
You must be a very patient person and I wish you the best.