DUDE! don't waste you time with that.. cutting/splicing, heat shrinking,..etc... thats a pain in the arse... SPECIALLY if the wiring in your car is in a bad spot!
Head over to Hitch City! There's one is Scarborough on the North EAst side of Ellesmere and Warden area. The other one is in the west side area... Mississauga @ Dixie south of the 401 and south of the Car Dealers mall and you'll see it on the west side.
Go in the store and ask the clerk for a 2 pin connector to a 4pin connecter adapter for you car and basic pin set up on the trailer. Thats all you need is a "plug and play"!!!
It may cost $40+ but its worth every penny!
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