It's unfortunate that he can't be a little more patient. When you get more and more confident, though, you can start to push your bike harder. A Ninja 500 should be able to do 0-100km/h in under 6 seconds or so when you've got some practice. Let it rev high to get to where the power is, and you'll have a fighting chance of keeping up.
First few rides when I had my GS500, I was changing gears around 4k RPM. I didn't understand all the horsepower on a GS was at 7000+ RPM. Your bike will surprise you! Just be sure you are confident and ready to handle the power. The engine can handle it, but if you are up at the higher revs often, shortening your oil change intervals is a good idea.
Maybe try getting your boyfriend to understand that every set of lights isn't a drag race, or try getting into some new-rider friendly group rides here on the forums
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